Several weeks ago we all hiked up Multnomah falls. Ryan and Luke were eager to get on the trail. It was Daphne's first time to walk all by herself.  

.

 It started out happy.  I did not get the pictures of her crying, most of the way up.  Daphne is one to think something is too big and unachievable.  So she gives up before the battle has begun.  We cheered her on, gave her breaks. But the crying continued.  Blotchy, red welts covered her face from crying.  Luke tried to encourage her. People gave us scolding looks.  Others felt sorry for her.  We knew she could do it! 

In contrast, I was surprised at how effortlessly Luke climbed up. He'd get far ahead and then hike back down to meet us.  He hikes like his Dad!

   

Heading up the rear.  We continued on..

                                                                           Success!

 Cheesy fake smiles.  They happen. They just do this now.  Also, I couldn't muster up the strength to look over the falls and take a picture. I don't do so well with heights.

As soon as we arrived at the top, Daphne's attitude changed. She was so excited that she did it!  2.6 miles and 700 foot elevation.  It was a success.  On the way down, she looked at other crying children and cheered them on. Other parents, seeing Daphne, encouraged their children "Do you see that the little girl climbed to the top? You can do it too."

At the end, it was a great day. Happy children. Good life lessons in perseverance and encouragement.  We are so blessed to have our children.